Are you a Gold Digger?

Yesterday I read an interesting article on The Star paper about Gold Diggers. It raises a lot thoughts and tips too. Does love still matter in the 21st century? After all, marrying rich is perhaps the best way to beat recession.

There's even a song called Gold Digger by Kanye West.

How to spot a Gold Digger?

1. She wants to marry. Now. A gold digger will push for marriage fast so that she won't lose out on the opportunity with Mr. Rich.

2. She gives love. Quickly.

3. She plays the good role of a good wife. Too soon. She cooks, cleans and washes. She doesn't nag him when he goes out with the guys. Why? So she can show him exactly what a great partner she will be.

4. She makes him pay for everything. ALWAYS. Pay for her dinner. Buy her the latest designer bag. Help out with her credit card bill, her daily needs and even accommodation rental. A gold digger will have no qualms asking him for financial favours. That's what he is for anyway, right?

Can money really buy love? And what happens when Mr. Rich decides to go for a younger and more attractive gold digger?


So, are you a gold digger? How good are you? Can you spot the correct Mr. Rich?


Or else, you will end up like in the movie Priceless whereby a young gold digger (Audrey Tautou) mistakenly woos a mild-mannered bartender (Elmaleh) thinking he's a wealthy man.






Haha...so gold diggers stay away from me... I'm not your Mr. Rich.


Go and target someone else.

Missing you...

Today you are in my THOUGHTS again,

As you so often are.

Do you miss me too, DL?

Brothers & Sisters Season 2

I have just finished watching Brothers and Sisters Season 2. I truly love this season so much with all the dramas in the Walker family. They always fight with each other and they just cannot keep any secrets among the family members.


But, the most moving part is the finale episode in this season when Nora told Kevin he deserved to have a beautiful wedding just as much as anybody else. Even though Kevin did not want any flowers in the wedding, but his mum, Nora just got carried away with the flower decorations and in the end, the wedding was so romantic and beautiful.

One of the other reasons this episode was so touching was because I just love Scotty so much (besides being so cute). I felt so sorry for him that his parents were so unwilling to come and see him get married. I just find him to be such a good person that I want him to be happy, even more so than Kevin. Nora's acceptance of him, his father's cufflinks, the flowers: It was all what Scotty deserved.

- Kevin and Scotty make a commitment to be life partners

If there is a life-partners commitment, the relationship would then last longer and it's a some sort of guarantee to both parties to be loyal to each other and it's not purely based on sex.

However, it is still hard for our society to accept this kind of culture though but at some points, we still need to open up our minds at the end of the day because life still goes on whether you like it or not.

I don't think that we will ever can have this kind of commitment to be life partners here. Maybe somewhere else. But, definitely not here. Not ever...

After all, c'est la vie...